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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-02-27 02:46 pm

[ SECRET POST #3342 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3342 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2016-02-27 10:37 pm (UTC)(link)
Trans man, checking in.

...So, I don't see a problem with being "curious", but I do see a problem if you're curious for the same reason you might be curious about futa or something (ie. you're curious because you think the way the relationship/hookup might work would be the same way it works in porn).

Porn is not real life, so don't go looking for trans guys thinking you're going to live out your porn fantasy. On the other hand, there's no harm in going for a craigslist or grindr hookup as long as you're respectful of pronouns, turn offs, no-fly zones, and you don't take any preconceived notions along with you, and you don't let one experience with a trans person color your view of what every other one wants.

tl;dr as long as you're not a dick about it, go ahead and live your dreams.