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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-03-02 06:47 pm

[ SECRET POST #3346 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3346 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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(Donald Trump / Milo Yiannopoulos)



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02.
[Pathologic]


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03.
[Legends of Tomorrow]


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[Tom Hiddleston in Crimson Peak]


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07.
(How to be a Serial Killer)


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[Pretty Little Liars]


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[Star Trek: Deep Space Nine]


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dancing_clown: (Default)

Re: Weight/dating/sexuality

[personal profile] dancing_clown 2016-03-03 02:02 am (UTC)(link)
This really is one of those "fake it til you make it" situations. All you really can do, especially if you're not comfortable confronting people, is just walk away and keep telling yourself that their opinion doesn't matter. You live the life you want and if anyone has a problem with it it's their problem not yours. Eventually, you'll start to believe it.

Re: Weight/dating/sexuality

(Anonymous) 2016-03-03 02:49 am (UTC)(link)
OP

I've tried that before, telling myself that their opinions don't matter and only mine does, and then I think "What the fuck am I thinking? My opinion isn't more important than theirs, that's a really arrogant way of thinking" and then go back to feeling bad about myself.

I guess I just need to try harder.
dancing_clown: (Default)

Re: Weight/dating/sexuality

[personal profile] dancing_clown 2016-03-03 03:31 am (UTC)(link)
To you, about things that directly relate to you, you're opinion IS more important than theirs, though. And for them, on issues relating to them, their opinion is more important.

It's that way for everybody, and the idea that it isn't is a perversion on what it means to be equal.

Re: Weight/dating/sexuality

(Anonymous) 2016-03-03 07:26 pm (UTC)(link)
OP

Hmmm. I've actually never thought about it that way, but that's a really good point. Thank you!