[ SECRET POST #3346 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3346 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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(Donald Trump / Milo Yiannopoulos)



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[Pathologic]


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[Legends of Tomorrow]


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[Tom Hiddleston in Crimson Peak]


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(How to be a Serial Killer)


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[Pretty Little Liars]


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[Star Trek: Deep Space Nine]


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Comments

Re: Weight/dating/sexuality

[herpymcderp]

I guess I probably just need therapy in general even outside of the sexuality stuff

That might be true, but the first thing to do is concentrate on the immediate, tangible thing that's bothering you and see where that leaves you. It seems to me that you really need someplace to talk about this where you'll be able to gain some perspective from people who have already been through it.

I'm not really up to date on my asexuality resources (I've never had a reason to be), but there are quite a few websites and forums that may be able to help you along your personal journey if you are feeling trapped and misunderstood. If a therapist is not an option then at least you should be talking to someone who has lived your experience. I suggest finding a forum or support group with an atmosphere you like and feel comfortable in. Ask for input there or resources in your area.

Here is a good place to start: http://www.asexuality.org/wiki/index.php?title=Asexual_sites

I'm sorry I can't personally be of more help to you, but hopefully that will lead you to someone who can provide a bit more perspective than me. :)

Re: Weight/dating/sexuality

[(Anonymous)]

Not OP but I thought you didn't believe asexuality existed? At least I seem to remember you telling someone that in the past, but maybe I'm getting you mixed up with someone else.

Re: Weight/dating/sexuality

[herpymcderp]

No? What!? NO. I absolutely believe asexuality (and aromance) is a real thing.

I think you may be misremembering. I'm almost certain I've commented that I didn't think demisexuality deserves to be called a sexuality (since it applies to 98% of people to some degree or another- really it's like saying that only being attracted to people who have the capacity to be attracted to you in return is a "sexuality"... but I digress).

Asexuality though? It has the potential for a neurological basis, certainly. That alone is enough for me to believe it is an orientation rather than a disorder or a simple hormone imbalance.

Re: Weight/dating/sexuality

[(Anonymous)]

OP

Thank you. I haven't gone to AVEN since way back at the beginning when I was first starting to think I might be asexual, but it sounds like I need to give it another look, and see if I could find a group or something. I think it would definitely help to talk to people who understand.