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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-03-04 07:05 pm

[ SECRET POST #3348 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3348 ⌋

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Re: Relationship question

(Anonymous) 2016-03-05 01:00 am (UTC)(link)
But why can't he unwind and relax with her? Why would he need to be alone to do this? NAYRT, btw.

Re: Relationship question

(Anonymous) 2016-03-05 01:05 am (UTC)(link)
TBH, the girlfriend sounds so dependent and desperate that time spent with her is probably anything but relaxing.

Re: Relationship question

[personal profile] herpymcderp 2016-03-05 01:06 am (UTC)(link)
Because for some people that's pretty much an impossibility. Introverts, you see.

I can't really relax around people, even if it's just my SO. She feels pretty much the same, btw.
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Re: Relationship question

[personal profile] kallanda_lee 2016-03-05 01:19 am (UTC)(link)
Because some people need to be *alone* to relax. They are often also known as introverts.

Re: Relationship question

(Anonymous) 2016-03-05 02:21 am (UTC)(link)
It's not even just an introvert thing. I'm plenty extroverted and I still set a high value on alone time, and so do most of the extroverts I know.

Re: Relationship question

(Anonymous) 2016-03-05 01:58 am (UTC)(link)
As the others have said, introverts exist.

Introverts still love others, but being around people drains them.

Just like extroverts thrive off being in someone's company.

Someone like the OP's girlfriend would despise being "ignored", as she would feel being around me when I'm relaxing (because I'm usually engrossed in a book, or a game, or while writing something or trying to do a translation).

/isn't male in any way, shape, or form

Re: Relationship question

(Anonymous) 2016-03-05 03:57 am (UTC)(link)
I'm female and an extrovert, and usually I'm receptive to being a sounding board for people who are anxious and depressed, but OP's girlfriend sounds exhausting to be around even for me.