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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-03-04 07:05 pm

[ SECRET POST #3348 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3348 ⌋

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14. [SPOILERS for Avatar: the Last Airbender/Legend of Korra]






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Re: Relationship question

(Anonymous) 2016-03-05 04:05 am (UTC)(link)
Wanting/needing time to yourself is perfectly fine, take it from this happily married woman of 12 years and counting. I love my husband and love spending time with him. He's my best friend. But I've always enjoyed my solitude and sometimes I need time to recharge. He doesn't have that same need, but he understands me and respects my need all the same.

Frankly, the fact that your partner's reaction is to guilt trip you and threaten suicide suggests that she needs therapy and you might think twice about a longterm relationship with her. That is not how a healthy, loving relationship works, not at all. I understand if you're reluctant to push the issue, especially after the suicide. But you can't let her dictate how you spend every waking hour. That's not good for you, her OR your relationship.