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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-03-05 12:28 pm

[ SECRET POST #3349 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3349 ⌋

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Re: What sexualities and gender identites do you believe exist?

(Anonymous) 2016-03-05 07:08 pm (UTC)(link)
straight, gay, bi/pan, a/none

i believe demi et al are real things, but not 'sexualities' and more like descriptors added to the above bases. a demi'sexual' bi person is attracted to anyone they are emotionally connected to, a demi'sexual' gay person is only attracted to same gender people they are connected to and whatnot

i differentiate because i don't think anybody is only demisexual alone by itself and if they are, it's shorthand for demi-bi/pansexual

Re: What sexualities and gender identites do you believe exist?

(Anonymous) 2016-03-05 07:12 pm (UTC)(link)
i forgot gender

male, female, something else, none

and there are as many ways to be 'something else' as there are ways to be a man or a woman
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Re: What sexualities and gender identites do you believe exist?

[personal profile] morieris 2016-03-05 07:37 pm (UTC)(link)
Basically.

Re: What sexualities and gender identites do you believe exist?

(Anonymous) 2016-03-05 07:13 pm (UTC)(link)
I agree with this. I believe they're real things, but they're supplementary to orientations.

Re: What sexualities and gender identites do you believe exist?

(Anonymous) 2016-03-05 07:16 pm (UTC)(link)
yup when people say demi-ness is not a real thing it's stupid because obviously it's a real thing and how some people approach sex and relationships and attraction

is it a sexuality unique to itself is a better question and that one is usually no, demi is a more of a style in which an orientation is approached, which is just as legitimate as any other sexual style

Re: What sexualities and gender identites do you believe exist?

(Anonymous) 2016-03-05 07:28 pm (UTC)(link)
I always feel bad for groups/identities that get made fun of because of tumblr. I mean yeah people on tumblr act like idiots about things, but it just seems mean to make fun of a person who's totally cool about it because of them.

Also I've been in a position like that, with people accusing me of being self diagnosed when I just mention my disability and act like just saying you have it is an invitation to mock you. It's frustrating.

Re: What sexualities and gender identites do you believe exist?

(Anonymous) 2016-03-06 12:28 am (UTC)(link)
I'm autochorissexual, and I think this seems fair. I generally tell people I'm "a type of asexual," and then if they seem interested I'll get a bit more specific about what kind of ace I am.