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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-03-05 12:28 pm

[ SECRET POST #3349 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3349 ⌋

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Re: Confessions thread

(Anonymous) 2016-03-06 03:55 am (UTC)(link)
What the fucking fuck about the therapist? That's terrible. A bad therapist can set you back.

But what makes you think you can't be an independent adult?
dahli: winnar @ lj (Default)

Re: Confessions thread

[personal profile] dahli 2016-03-06 04:13 am (UTC)(link)
I explained an anon up there about it but tl;dr my mom freaks out really easily.

And every time I tried doing something for myself/not for my family I ended up getting put down/yelled at/snarked at. Years and years of the same thing can wear you down emotionally, so I ended up not trying any more. Saves me the pain of having to search for a therapist.

Re: Confessions thread

(Anonymous) 2016-03-06 02:21 pm (UTC)(link)
No one should get yelled at or put down for trying to make independent decisions. That sounds abusive to me. Why can't you move out on your own?
dahli: winnar @ lj (Default)

Re: Confessions thread

[personal profile] dahli 2016-03-07 12:23 am (UTC)(link)
Meh, too many reasons but mostly its money. Instead I'm trying to look for other ways to be independent without telling my family (and friends sometimes) about it.