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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-03-05 12:28 pm

[ SECRET POST #3349 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3349 ⌋

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Early today, places to go!

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Re: should i break up with my girlfriend?

(Anonymous) 2016-03-06 05:00 am (UTC)(link)
That OP was me actually. I was going through some crazy shit at the time and in some weird way making it sound like someone else had an even more fucked up life than me made me feel better about things. (I'm pretty sure I mentioned in the original post having problems with my boyfriend at the time...that situation only got worse and more insane, but I'm finally past it now.) I did say a lot of negative, awful things about my cousins and make some things sound much worse than they really were. I feel bad about it all now, but all I can say is that that was a really dark time in my life, though I know that that's no excuse.

Things are much better for me now, though. I've been through a lot of therapy and I actually have a girlfriend (people probably remember that I was not exactly open-minded about sexuality initially and I guess that was part of working through my own sexuality issues, which I think at least contributed to my overall depression back then) and though my cousins wouldn't talk to me for a long time, we're back on speaking terms and fairly close again. The person who responded above is actually right, the basic facts of the story were/are true. I know it's hard to believe and a lot of people probably still think it's fake (tbh, I don't blame them) but the general story was true, though I admit I did exaggerate a lot about the specifics. Anyway, they're actually still together, and I'm fine with it now. It took a long time for me to accept, but they're happy so I'm ok with it.

I'm honestly surprised people still remember my post, it was so long ago!