[ SECRET POST #3354 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3354 ⌋

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09. [ warning for homophobia / transphobia / misogyny take your pick, people seem to be divided on this one ]













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Comments

Re: Question

[(Anonymous)]

I have never seen someone not do it unless they had no father. In which case they walked down with someone else. I would find it weird but to do it. You just walk down the aisle by yourself??

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[ariakas]

I've seen many brides walk down by themselves?

Re: Question

[(Anonymous)]

Yes? No one is giving me away. Unless my fiance's father and mother were standing with him as well, in which case I might do it with my father and mother. Otherwise, I can't see any reason to do it. It entirely stems from when women were owned by their fathers until they were given away to their husbands.

Honestly I'm not even sure about walking down the aisle. I go back and forth on that one. But I get it. The idea that modern women, even ones who don't take their husbands names, want to be given away by their fathers just confuses me.

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[(Anonymous)]

It's almost as if modern women and feminism are complex with many layers since it's practiced by many different people, isn't it! My father walked me down the aisle. I chose that because I know he's very sentimental and it would make him happy. He knows damn well it doesn't say anything about him "owning" me or giving me away like property, because he's a sensible human being who doesn't place too much significance in what is a trivial gesture.

Just like me wearing a shade of ivory rather than pure white wasn't meant to be sartorial commentary on my sexual purity, I just happen to look better in ivory. Look, you mean well but you sound really uncompromising and you don't seem to realize that not everyone shares your narrow worldview of how things ought to be done.

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[(Anonymous)]

In Sweden it's more traditional for the bride and bridegroom to walk down together.