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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-03-13 04:15 pm

[ SECRET POST #3357 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3357 ⌋

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Re: confession thread

[personal profile] herpymcderp 2016-03-13 09:08 pm (UTC)(link)
Now, I don't know exactly what transpired but... It's really, really hard to ascribe blame when someone is ill enough to need mechanical life support, OP. If this is what I think it is, and it was a palliative care situation, then you might have been doing them a favour in the long run.

Age-related deaths aren't "due to fuck ups". Age-related deaths are inevitable. It's so very difficult in end of life care to say that someone would definitively have survived longer with a quality of life they found pleasant and worthwhile if things had been different. Most of my experiences have found the opposite to be true.

Again, I don't know the specifics. I'm just saying there's a chance you shouldn't really be beating yourself up for this.

Re: confession thread

(Anonymous) 2016-03-13 10:40 pm (UTC)(link)
Seconding - I used to work for a law firm that represented a lot of nursing homes, and if anything was even slightly off the family would have sued for wrongful death/negligence. The fact that the mistake apparently escaped detection makes me think there was nothing to detect.
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Re: confession thread

[personal profile] sparrow_lately 2016-03-14 12:24 am (UTC)(link)
+1