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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-03-13 04:15 pm

[ SECRET POST #3357 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3357 ⌋

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Re: Friend Dumping

(Anonymous) 2016-03-13 11:51 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm anon who posts sometimes about the friend I dumped "without warning".

1. I didn't tell them, I avoided contact for a few months (this was easy) and then I blocked them

2. This is why I blocked them, so they wouldn't contact me over my absence. I have loosely prepared phrases of "We have grown apart" if they do contact me in other ways (They are not blocked on facebook or email, both of which they know and are reasonable ways around a phone blockage). Mostly I hope if we are forced to interact in person, that if I act like nothing is up they too will act like nothing is up.

Related: I think it would depend on how you think they will take it. In my case, I think they will just use it to excuse their shitty behaviour or to turn it around and attack me. As attacking me when they are frustrated is one of the reasons I dumped them.