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fandomsecrets2016-03-21 06:38 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2016-03-21 06:38 pm
[ SECRET POST #3365 ]
⌈ Secret Post #3365 ⌋
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Re: Do you consider sexuality just a sexual preference or an identity?
But...what about the fact that while I have many close and wonderful friendships with men, I could never imagine quite having the kind of closeness necessary to date with one? Or my discomfort, growing up, with some of the things that were expected of me and other girls just because we were girls? What about the bond I have with other queer people? Or my love for my fiancé, and the family we intend to have together? Those things are part of my identity.
See, I'm personally really wary of the idea that being gay is just a sexual preference, as it reduces being gay(or bi or a lesbian etc) to just something that happens behind closed doors, which is one step away from just a dirty sexual perversion.