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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-03-25 06:51 pm

[ SECRET POST #3369 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3369 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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02. http://i.imgur.com/6Q4pNb9.gifv
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[Mulan 2]


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(Devil May Cry)


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(Justin Lukach, Departures)


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[New Tricks]


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[One Direction]


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(rantasmo)


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[Killer Instinct for xbox one]


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[Fallen London]


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18. [SPOILERS for The Blacklist]




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19. [SPOILERS for Zootopia]




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20. [SPOILERS for Boku dake ga Inai Machi (ERASED)]




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21. [SPOILERS for House of Cards (Character Death)]




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22. [WARNING for rape/sexual assault]



















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(Anonymous) 2016-03-25 11:53 pm (UTC)(link)
I was actually going to say that I've often felt the opposite of what the secret says (that people prefer rationality to emotion to the point that they discount the opinion of anyone expressing emotion, even if they aren't acting/making arguments based on their emotions), but I'm pretty sure what I've encountered is what you've described here. To a lot of people, it's only important that you APPEAR rational (explaining everything, staying calm) even if your arguments are based on your personal feelings. Then they immediately discount the opinions of anyone who appears emotional (being angry, crying, etc.) even if that person's arguments are based on logic and they just happen to care enough to become emotional.

I guess I wish people understood the difference between expressing emotion and making arguments based on emotion, and the difference between being calm and actually using logic.

(Anonymous) 2016-03-26 12:19 am (UTC)(link)
yeah, good points.

(Anonymous) 2016-03-26 01:33 am (UTC)(link)
this is a good comment
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[personal profile] diet_poison 2016-03-26 02:03 pm (UTC)(link)
+3, never thought about it in so many words before but really good points.