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Comments

Re: Confession thread

[(Anonymous)]

I don't like my best friend. I'm not sure I ever did.

Re: Confession thread

[(Anonymous)]

Then how is s/he your best friend? By definition, your best friend can't be someone you don't like. Unless you're misunderstanding the definition of "friend" as "person I spend a lot of time with/do a lot of things with."

Re: Confession thread

[(Anonymous)]

Well, friendships don't have to be permanent, nonny.

Re: Confession thread

[(Anonymous)]

It sucks when that happens, and moving apart can be awkward and painful if it doesn't go right. Sorry, nonny.

Re: Confession thread

[(Anonymous)]

:(

I can sorta relate, OP.

I love my best friend, but sometimes I do wonder if maybe we've grown apart and should split ways because of different interests and personalities etc., but her idea of a friendship is just someone who will be there for her, someone she can talk to and do innocuous things like shopping with, so even when I "joke" about "divorcing" her, she makes it clear our friendship will never end.

(We've been friends since we were 10 or 11. We didn't see each other for four years during high school. I guess we're pretty much ride or die at this point.)

Anyway, I'm really sorry to hear you don't like your best friend & aren't sure you ever did. Do you have other friends, or is this a situation where it's better to be with this best friend you don't like than to be alone?

Re: Confession thread

[(Anonymous)]

My best friend has been equal parts insensitive and competitive lately. Even though I know she's never been completely aware of how insensitive she can be, and the other stuff is a coping mechanism on some level, it's been going on for about a year now and it's starting to grate on me.

Re: Confession thread

[(Anonymous)]

Time for a talk, then. You might think you're saving yourself trouble by not addressing the issue, but the problem with issues like this is that they don't tend to improve by themselves, they only get worse. The longer you wait, the harder it is for the other person to understand what the big deal is. After all, you've put up with it until now, right?

In the meantime, you're only going to get more resentful and it'll damage your friendship. Have that talk ASAP, anon.