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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-03-26 04:03 pm

[ SECRET POST #3370 ]


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Re: Can I help my brother?

[personal profile] dahli 2016-03-27 04:40 am (UTC)(link)
If he feels safer OUTSIDE his own place then that's a huge red flag so I think giving him advice that they should break it off but not by fighting. They should really talk it out, and see that the best for each other is to not continue because they are hurting themselves in the long term. Also ask him if it's worth going through all the pain and tears just for a moment of happiness? :/ Because that sounds really unhealthy.

Yes, it sucks to break-up but it's better to do it now or he'll end up getting dragged down. They can always talk it out and if they want to, they can get back together later on when they are sure they won't try to tear each other a new one.

Eh but to answer your question I think the best you can do right now is to help him and advice him as best as you can. I think by the end of the day he'll make the choice he thinks it's better for the both of them.
Edited 2016-03-27 04:42 (UTC)