[ SECRET POST #3372 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3372 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Fandom rant thread

[philstar22]

Somehow I've become the go-to person for this other person in my fandom to talk to about her OCs and her whole separate little OC world within the canon world. It started out because I have pretty clear headcanons of the canon character who enslaves one of her OCs. And she wanted someone to talk with about headcanons. Okay, cool. So I stupidly gave her my fandom email.

But now she sends me multiple emails a day plus Tumblr messages. She wants to talk all the time. And if I don't respond for several emails she'll send me "hello?" I like her, and I kind of like her creations a bit. But I don't want to talk all the time. And I don't want to be basically creating her roleplays and fics for her. It is getting frustrating.

Re: Fandom rant thread

[(Anonymous)]

Boundaries. You need to build them. It's a little tricky at this stage because she's already vaulted over your boundaries, but you need to build them back up.

You don't owe this person anything. You are not a fic/RP creation mill for her. Multiple emails a day & tumblr messages is seriously excessive. I'm sure you have a life outside of emailing her, right?

Tell her you don't have time, or you're busy, or you just don't want to talk all the time. Tell her you need space and breathing room. If she doesn't accept any of those things then she's not someone you want to be devoting any more time to.