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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-03-28 06:43 pm

[ SECRET POST #3372 ]


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Rant Thread

(Anonymous) 2016-03-28 11:23 pm (UTC)(link)
Because I need to let go.

Re: Rant Thread

(Anonymous) 2016-03-28 11:26 pm (UTC)(link)
I had the temerity to clean my kitchen today. Both of my hips moved slightly out of joint. My hip flexors are killing. Every movement of my legs hurts. When I try to sleep my legs violently twitch. Something along the lines of this bullshit happens every day. I used to be really active and do loads of exercise and now I can't do anything.

My family and partner keep making jokes about how lazy I am. I know they don't mean it and they're just jokes, but it still hurts.

Re: Rant Thread

(Anonymous) 2016-03-28 11:46 pm (UTC)(link)
Ack, that sucks anon. I don't have any advice I'm afraid, but you have my sympathies. I'm in a similar situation and it sucks.

Re: Rant Thread

(Anonymous) 2016-03-29 12:17 am (UTC)(link)
Thank you. I'm sorry about your situation too. It does indeed suck.

Re: Rant Thread

(Anonymous) 2016-03-29 12:16 am (UTC)(link)
<3

A possibly invasive question but I know you have health issues too. What were you diagnosed with and how did your doctors arrive at that conclusion?
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Re: Rant Thread

(Anonymous) 2016-03-29 01:25 am (UTC)(link)
Ooft. That's a lot of bullshit to put up with. I'm having a lot of unspecified pain (crops up in different areas but mostly my back, ribs, and legs) and I'm foggy/dizzy/can't think straight all the time. Plus exhausted.

They did tests and found some inflammation in my bowel. Which means I have to get a lot of invasive tests done which will not address the above problems because they're not stomach related, then go through the whole GP appointment, months for a referral, months for tests thing again.
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[personal profile] sparrow_lately 2016-03-29 01:27 am (UTC)(link)
I'm not a doctor but sounds like fibromyalgia maybe?

best of luck to you <3<3<3
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Re: Rant Thread

[personal profile] a_potato 2016-03-29 12:19 am (UTC)(link)
Oh man.

I'm sorry anon. It sucks to be in pain, and it sucks even more to no longer be able to do things that were once a big part of your life.

Are there treatments that can eventually help?

Re: Rant Thread

(Anonymous) 2016-03-29 12:36 am (UTC)(link)
Not yet. They still don't know what's wrong with me.
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Re: Rant Thread

[personal profile] a_potato 2016-03-29 12:46 am (UTC)(link)
Ugh. :( I hope they figure something out soon!

Re: Rant Thread

(Anonymous) 2016-03-28 11:59 pm (UTC)(link)
I work with a bunch of immature people who treat my work place like their middle school playground. "Oh, so-and-so totally tattled to the supervisor about such-and-such, we should all shun them for being a nark!" "OMG so-and-so is such a bitch! I'll give them the cold shoulder, too!" "Such-and-such is talking so much trash about so-and-so!"

Like, get over yourselves. Maybe you should focus on your kids' education. Or on your job.

On the plus side, all of that bullshit is irrelevant because the big bosses recently announced that our department is being shipped out to Mexico in about two years.

I hate my job and half my coworkers, so I'm mostly like, "Kay," to the announcement.

Re: Rant Thread

(Anonymous) 2016-03-29 12:03 am (UTC)(link)
What is it you do?

Re: Rant Thread

(Anonymous) 2016-03-29 02:55 am (UTC)(link)
Eh... that sounds about nearly every place I've ever worked in. Without generalizing too much, it seems very in human nature to gossip (not always negatively). People just like to talk about people.

And honestly, if someone IS being a bitch to me at work, sometimes it's just easier to avoid them (which may come across as a 'cold shoulder') than to give them more ammunition to be horrible to you.

Re: Rant Thread

(Anonymous) 2016-03-29 05:59 am (UTC)(link)
Instead of talking to me about THE TINIEST THINGS my roommate will make passive aggressive posts about things I do that annoy her on social media that she knows I follow. And its the smallest stuff that she could just knock on my door and tell me? Like - I forgot to tell the bathroom cause I am going in and out of it a lot doing a thing, she posts "um, how about we fucking turn the light off when we're done with the fucking bathroom?" like?? I'm literally across the hall from you, knock on my door and tell me to turn the light off. She does this ALL THE TIME about EVERYTHING. Its not like its a private venting blog, she knows I follow her and she follows me - its the pettiest shit and after years of this its honestly pissing me off at this point

Re: Rant Thread

(Anonymous) 2016-03-29 08:03 am (UTC)(link)
Do you call her on it? As in posting replies to her passive aggressive remarks:

"[Roommate], if there's something you'd like to discuss with me, please talk to me directly, because this is what mature adults do."