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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-04-03 04:00 pm

[ SECRET POST #3378 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3378 ⌋

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Re: Things you want to say but got no one to say to

(Anonymous) 2016-04-03 10:11 pm (UTC)(link)
Even though 90 percent of the time I'm happy to not be in a relationship, and I 100 percent know I don't want babies, my last single, childless friend has entered a serious relationship and now I'mfeeling really jealous of all my friends who have partners and purposes. (Not that kids are the only way to have a purpose but I don't really feel like I serve any function or have any desire to get out there most of the time.)
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Re: Things you want to say but got no one to say to

[personal profile] diet_poison 2016-04-04 02:32 am (UTC)(link)
Parenting is an important purpose*, yes, but it is not THE ONLY important purpose.

*kind of a weird way to put it for me, since people can be parents and also do other important, purposeful things. Being a parent or not a parent shouldn't totally define a person!

Remember that you influence everyone you interact with, and choose to do so with love and kindness - that's a purpose, right there - you're making the world better by your interactions and the way you live. You can also try volunteering or activism if you want to do something outside your job and social life that makes a difference - it doesn't even have to be a lot! I know you said you're not motivated to "get out there" but you can volunteer 1 or 2 hours a week/every other week/month and see if you like it, that's not a huge commitment.