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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-04-03 04:00 pm

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diet_poison: (Default)

Re: Bachalorette Party gift?

[personal profile] diet_poison 2016-04-04 02:03 am (UTC)(link)
Why is lingerie a gift for him and not both of them?? (though you are probably right that other people will get it)

ETA: now that I think about it - how well do you know the other guests? if you know them fairly well, you can ask them what they're getting and either ask for ideas from them (like things they passed over) or coordinate something with someone, and at the least make sure you don't get something redundant.
Edited 2016-04-04 02:03 (UTC)

Re: Bachalorette Party gift?

(Anonymous) 2016-04-04 03:42 am (UTC)(link)
I guess because it's to make her look good, presumably to make the guy happy?

I guess it's a gift for both of them if you believe that thing about men being turned on by attractive women and women being turned on by being attractive to men, but it doesn't work that way for everyone.
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Re: Bachalorette Party gift?

[personal profile] diet_poison 2016-04-05 12:20 am (UTC)(link)
idk I wear really plain undergarments and am not currently sexually active but I hear women talk all the time about how they wear pretty undies for themselves. And a person can enjoy being attractive for their partner for other reasons beyond it giving them a (lady)boner of their own. I definitely don't buy into that simplistic view of attraction that you apparently also don't buy into (yay, we agree!) but that doesn't mean you can't be motivated to look nice for your partner or just enjoy looking at yourself in the mirror and going "yeah, I'm sexy!"