[ SECRET POST #3378 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3378 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 053 secrets from Secret Submission Post #483.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

Re: The only one overreacting here is YOU. Holy shit.

[(Anonymous)]

NA

This secret is specifically calling out that secret aand making fun ot if though. And it's doing it in the most snarky, privileged, disgusting way possible, basically calling you defective if something small happens to give you anxiety. The secret being referenced wasn't wanky or nasty, and specifically noted that they knew fic authors don't "owe" them anything. They went out of their way to state that. They weren't mean. Or nasty. Or entitled. Just simply stating something they were embarrassed to talk about un-anon.

And yet this person got SOOOOO pissed they had to make a nasty secret about it. Yeah, this other anon is definitely upset, but in my opinion they have a damn good right to be. I don't personally get anxieties about fics (no my brain has wayyyyy too many other OCD related things to bother me about, like whether I left the stove on even though I haven't used it in three days, that sort of shit), but it's certainly something easily within the realm of getting some anxiety about, just like some people get anxiety when their favourite published series hasn't seen anything new in awhile.

It's pretty obvious that this secret is in DIRECT context with the one from a week or two ago, and it is a massive overreaction full of malice and spite. OP needs to get off their high horse.

Re: The only one overreacting here is YOU. Holy shit.

[diet_poison]

No? It says secrets, plural. People post secrets about hot-button fic topics all the time.

While it's likely that one secret was all or most of OP's motivation for writing this one, we really can't prove it, and it doesn't mean their opinion/reaction didn't already exist before that.

You have the "right" to be anxious about anything and as long as it doesn't cross into entitlement territory I don't see the problem. Do you inform your favorite authors that their failure to complete a series they've been working on is triggering your anxiety? I doubt it. That would be a really unfair thing to do, because it's making them emotionally indebted to you for something that was theirs to begin with.

And I'm really not seeing any malice or spite. Some snark in the last bit but it's honestly way milder than some secrets that don't get this level of vitriolic response. Malice though? Really? You must be squinting pretty hard. There's a reason they're fandom SECRETS - people think things like this in their head all the time (I am no better than OP and neither are you); it's not the same as saying it directly to someone to whom you think it applies.

Re: The only one overreacting here is YOU. Holy shit.

[(Anonymous)]

"Wtf? How do you get through life? Get over yourself and grow up."

Yup, nothing hateful or vitriolic about hurling that at someone with a mental illness.

I can't figure out if you're actually that thick or if you agree with OP that mentally ill people just need to stop being babies and act normal.

Those are literally the only two reasons for your behavior in this thread: ignorance or hate. Which is it?

Re: The only one overreacting here is YOU. Holy shit.

[(Anonymous)]

Por que no los dos?

Re: The only one overreacting here is YOU. Holy shit.

[diet_poison]

Or maybe it's that I - as a person who also has mental illness, btw - feel very strongly that one person's mental illness is ultimately thei own responsibility and no one eles's. I am not mocking people for having them or telling them to snap out of it. But it's ridiculous to imply that a fic author has a responsibility to cater to someone else's anxiety when writing or posting fic, and they aren't even doing something really careless like leaving out major trigger warnings.

OP could have been nicer, but again, there is a reason stuff like this is posted as a secret. I think their frustration with other people acting entitled and emotionally blackmailing fic writers over WIPs is understandable. They weren't being hateful towards mental illjess, in my interpretation (correct me if wrong, OP?) but rather exasperated and snarky towards a particular subgroup of people as defined by their choices - not even a subgroup, really, as people who do not have mental illness, or have an illness that has nothing to do with their fic reading experience, also do this.