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Re: Sex question

[(Anonymous)]

OK, putting aside the sexual side of this, how is the communication in the relationship? Can you both talk about things without being afraid of the other person? I know sometimes people lie to spare feelings, but open and caring communication inside a relationship is always something to strive for.

If you can practice communication, and be very open and caring with each other, it will do wonders for every area, including sex. You need to be able to talk about sex and what you want; you need to be able to say no. It can't be unspoken all the time. Couples need ot discuss.

I watched this the other day and I realized, he's so right! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tr8aSXNdb2Y I don't know if his advice is usually good, but talking about sex, learning how to really communicate, is something to strive for. But that goes for lots of areas of a relationship.

I think if you can be open and vulnerable with your partner, open the door for them to talk, you can really learn to understand each other and maybe no, sometimes she doesn't mean it, and can learn to say that--and sometimes, maybe it's OK for her to say yes to make you happy, because she wants to make you happy and it's her choice.

Depending on the history of the two of you, there might be lots to overcome, but love and communication can work wonders.