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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-04-07 06:49 pm

[ SECRET POST #3382 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3382 ⌋

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Re: Sex question

(Anonymous) 2016-04-07 11:32 pm (UTC)(link)
The bigger and more important question here I feel, is working out the issue of 'she would totally lie to me to spare my feelings'.

If she does this, and thinks it's the 'right' thing to do, (without trying to sound accusatory here) is there something that you might have done--intentionally or unintentionally--where she would feel this is necessary?

Because if you're seriously thinking she'd go along with sex if she doesn't want to (and not just in a 'hey sure why not, I'm not super in the mood but ILU and want to make you happy' sort of way that some compromises are based on) that's more of an issue to me than trying to figure out IF she's doing that.

Re: Sex question

(Anonymous) 2016-04-07 11:34 pm (UTC)(link)
I would worry bigger than that.

On the S/O's side: Does she do this for other things? To other people? Do other people or family pressure her to lie to spare their feelings?

On OP's side: Do you trust her about other things, and if so, what makes sex different?