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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-04-07 06:49 pm

[ SECRET POST #3382 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3382 ⌋

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Re: Sex question

(Anonymous) 2016-04-07 11:37 pm (UTC)(link)
Just stop pressuring her, anon. Let her initiate. Actually refuse sex a few times. If she's being sensitive to your pressure she won't mind you refusing, but if she gets angry or frustrated well... then yeah, you're good to go. Be mindful of her feelings the way you think she's mindful of yours. In short, be a better boyfriend.

Re: Sex question

(Anonymous) 2016-04-07 11:43 pm (UTC)(link)
This is a very strange comment

Re: Sex question

(Anonymous) 2016-04-07 11:44 pm (UTC)(link)
How so?

Re: Sex question

(Anonymous) 2016-04-08 12:00 am (UTC)(link)
Because it seems weirdly manipulative, with the 'refuse a few times and see if she gets angry or frustrated'. Maybe it's just the way I'm reading it, but I think it would be way better to discuss the situation openly. I know OP's problem is that they're not sure to the nth degree, but sometimes you have to take people at their word. I don't think relationship 'tests' are a good idea.

Re: Sex question

(Anonymous) 2016-04-08 02:18 am (UTC)(link)
lmao definitely agree - baiting your girlfriend and turning her down just to see how she reacts sounds like a terrible reaction - especially since presumably it means WANTING to get a negative reaction out of her

Re: Sex question

(Anonymous) 2016-04-07 11:45 pm (UTC)(link)
Agreed. I feel like actual words would work much better in this situation than 'well just stop asking for sex and see what happens'.