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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-04-12 06:51 pm

[ SECRET POST #3387 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3387 ⌋

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Re: Characters You Hate Seeing Being Called "Whiny"

(Anonymous) 2016-04-12 11:27 pm (UTC)(link)
See I agree with this.

People forget that Harry had to deal with a lot of the shit he dealt with alone. He didn't like to open up with people and trouble them with his personal woes and learned from a young age that he had to deal with things alone. The Dursleys sure as hell wouldn't help.

He dealt with a lot of trauma, like watching a classmate die, and he never got any help with possible PTSD. Not to mention as a young child his only adult example or father figure for as long as he could actually remember was Vernon Dursley. I don't think Vernon was a poster boy for good anger management skills, and considered it a good day if he got to yell at people. Until he was eleven at least.

Harry pulled through and made it through the skin of his teeth sometimes. It's impossible and unrealistic to expect him to always be able to manage his anger in constructive healthy ways as he never really learned how.

In the abusive household he grew up in he was suppressing it all the time, and watched his uncle go around yelling , blustering at and bullying people for ten years, and his aunt enabled all his uncle and cousins behavior. She probably took out her own aggression and anger on Harry himself.