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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-04-13 07:21 pm

[ SECRET POST #3388 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3388 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Pokémon, John Lone]


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[Mass Effect/Dragon Age]


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[Fire Emblem]


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[Bleach]


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06.
[Lord of the Rings]


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07.
[The Aliens]


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08.
(Stardew Valley)


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09.
[Caitlyn Jenner]


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[Rupaul's Drag Race, Acid Betty]










Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 038 secrets from Secret Submission Post #484.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

BTDT

(Anonymous) 2016-04-14 05:23 pm (UTC)(link)
When my ex-husband came out as trans I had a really rough time with this. It shook my belief system to my very core. I felt like such a hypocrite. We were together for 18 years, now apart for 6. I have finally made peace with the fact that yes, my ex is an abusive spouse and parent, yes she is an awful person. He was, before transition and she is now. She is not an awful person *because* she's trans and I am not transphobic because I dislike her. And just because every trans person I've ever met (knowingly) has been an entitled self-centered douche-bag says little about the trans community in general and more about how very limited my experience has been.

Like I told my teenage son when he came home ranted about a transboy at school. "You're allowed to not like him, but know you are biased. Be kind and if I ever hear of you doing or saying ANYTHING that I consider bullying or even standing aside while others harass him, I will make you sorry you were ever born."