[ SECRET POST #3393 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3393 ⌋

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Comments

Re: TW Rape

[(Anonymous)]

I do think we live in a culture that constantly, casually, and often unconsciously sexualizes unwilling/not explicitly willing participants and that many people, of any gender, don't quite learn how to communicate about sex with partners/potential partners when they're young. I think the assumption that young people are always having sex leads to too few "no"s, but that likewise does not a rapist make.

I think this is such an important issue that really needs to be addressed - namely, that people are not mindreaders, and if you don't want something, you have to SAY so. Can you really call someone a rapist if they were under the belief that the sex was consensual/wanted because they were never given any reason to believe otherwise and if they would have stopped had they known that it wasn't? I don't think that's fair at all.

Re: TW Rape

[sparrow_lately]

I agree--so you get a weird middle ground where someone might feel a sexual experience was very negative for them, but their partner didn't really do anything wrong. Can that person say they were assaulted, if they need to, even if their "assailant" isn't a rapist?

It's tricky.

Re: TW Rape

[(Anonymous)]

Exactly. And I think it's important to also clarify that you can have a negative sexual experience, but that doesn't mean it was rape. Sometimes you DO have sex that you regret afterwards. That doesn't mean it wasn't consensual at the time.