[ SECRET POST #3395 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3395 ⌋

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For those of you with family on social media (facebook in particular)...

[(Anonymous)]

1. Did you always have family on facebook, or were you sort of forced to add them?

2. Do you feel you're less relaxed when it comes to posting?

Re: For those of you with family on social media (facebook in particular)...

[sparrow_lately]

1. Kinda, yeah

2. YUP. Lately I've been taking more of a "fuck it, they already know I'm pro-choice etc" but some things I'm like......I have to be so needlessly careful with how I word this so I don't get needless flack from the crazy people

Re: For those of you with family on social media (facebook in particular)...

[kaijinscendre]

Yes. And no. I've never said anything on FB that I would not be comfortable with my boss seeing.

Re: For those of you with family on social media (facebook in particular)...

[(Anonymous)]

My boss reads facebook, so nothing goes to facebook other than squee over my younger nieces and nephews.

Re: For those of you with family on social media (facebook in particular)...

[kallanda_lee]

1) I was sort of forced. Well, in the sense the dded me and it would be rude to refuse, because the know I use it a lot.

2) Yes, though I try not to let it influence my subjects. I filter some of my not-in-laws, and restrict posts to them.

Re: For those of you with family on social media (facebook in particular)...

[dancing_clown]

I wasn't forced to add them, but I did when they asked. And while there are things I don't post there because of them, I don't really feel un-relaxed about it. I just post about those things elsewhere. Not every thought or interest needs to be broadcast on every platform available.

Re: For those of you with family on social media (facebook in particular)...

[(Anonymous)]

Not Facebook (I do have my relatives on Facebook, but I'd never post on Facebook regardless) but I definitely made a conscious decision to never let anyone in my family know my Twitter, because it would make me more uptight about it to the point where I wouldn't be able to use it at all. In particular, really, my mom. Not because she'd judge me for anything I said, just... it would be a whole thing.

But I also have anxiety issues in general and issues with this kind of thing in general, so grain of salt.

Re: For those of you with family on social media (facebook in particular)...

[shortysc22]

I'm pretty much only friends with relatives in my generation (my siblings and cousins) and definitely don't censor myself based on them being there.

I'm friends only with one of my aunts and I'm friends with several of my parent's friends so I definitely make sure any big news I tell my parents first before posting so that they hear it from me first.

Re: For those of you with family on social media (facebook in particular)...

[(Anonymous)]

1. Not older family members like my parents and aunts and uncles, but then my brother and extended family members added them, as well as some of my friends (who were/are the "add everyone you know!" types), and there was just no point in not adding them anymore.

2. A little? I limit what I post anyway because even with friends' protection, you just never know. But there's a lot of things I've withheld from posting. I used filters for a while, but then I felt like I was whispering. (Although I do have a few filters for specific interests. I think that's fair.)

Re: For those of you with family on social media (facebook in particular)...

[dethtoll]

My mom made a big stink of my refusing to add her on Facebook. It didn't change anything.

I have other relatives on, though. My posting style has been unaffected.

Re: For those of you with family on social media (facebook in particular)...

[nightscale]

1. Idk they just kind of ended up on there, but I wasn't forced to add them.

2. I don't post on facebook at all really, I only use it to vaguelly keep up with people I don't live near and that's it. My own wall has almost nothing on it.

Re: For those of you with family on social media (facebook in particular)...

[philstar22]

1. I added my parents to my facebook back when I was in college and my parents lived overseas. I was also not as different in terms of views from my parents back then. And I didn't have that many friends. So it wasn't as awkward.

2. I'm absolutely less relaxed. I don't post everything I'd like to. My dad is extremely anti-abortion, so I just don't post abortion-related things because I don't want to get into that argument with him.

Re: For those of you with family on social media (facebook in particular)...

[tabaqui]

I got FB *for* family - it's the only way i can interact often with my brothers and sis and mom (though not mom so much now) and various cousins/aunts/uncles who live Very Far Away.

I post what I want to post, and if they don't like it, they can ignore it. I've argued a bit with my more conservative relations, but nothing crazy - we mostly get along. I...really don't tailor what i post to make anyone happy - it's my FB.

Re: For those of you with family on social media (facebook in particular)...

[caerbannog]

1. I was one of the last to get Facebook and there is done obligation if I want to stay in contact

2. Not really. Filter groups are your friend and I tend to avoid posting anything controversial.

Re: For those of you with family on social media (facebook in particular)...

[(Anonymous)]

I won't go on facebook partly because most of my family is on facebook and there are certain aspects of my life that are none of their business. My parents don't respect my privacy at all, and I'm no kid. I'm middle aged.