[ SECRET POST #3396 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3396 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Finding out something nasty about someone you like a lot

[kallanda_lee]

ouch :(

Re: Finding out something nasty about someone you like a lot

[sparrow_lately]

Yeah :/ I feel so weirdly sad about it, because he's one of my favorites.

Re: Finding out something nasty about someone you like a lot

[kallanda_lee]

It's so hard because he's 14. Like it's that fine line of being too much of a kid to understand certain things, but, sort of having to know better, too.

I was a terrible human being at 14.

He probably does not grasp the full impact, but it's still shitty,and some things are sadly irreversible, even when you're young and stupid.

Re: Finding out something nasty about someone you like a lot

[sparrow_lately]

Yup. Plus, he's *still* 14, so the whole "he was young and stupid" thing doesn't totally fly because...he's still that guy? It's not like it's been 10 years.

Edit: I was a terrible person at 14, too, but I think I would have known reasons why taking naked pictures off someone's phone and sending them around would be extremely not okay. And I was astonishingly sexually naive at that age, tbh.

Re: Finding out something nasty about someone you like a lot

[kallanda_lee]

True, but in 10 years time he MIGHT still look back and cringe at the person he was...if certain things go right.

i know you might not feel like it, but if you're his teacher, could you maybe have a conversation with him about why he did it?

Re: Finding out something nasty about someone you like a lot

[sparrow_lately]

Oh yeah, he's by no means a lost cause. But it's just upsetting to learn.

For a lot of reasons I'm not the person to have a conversation with him about it--not least because it happened a long time ago (relatively speaking--last semester). Still, I suppose this is good practice for when nice kids do nasty shit.

Re: Finding out something nasty about someone you like a lot

[kallanda_lee]

Right - well fair enough. You can still be powerful influence, though, don't underestimate that.

Re: Finding out something nasty about someone you like a lot

[sparrow_lately]

<3