[ SECRET POST #3396 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3396 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Asexuals dating non-asexuals

[(Anonymous)]

I mean, it's not like there isn't a third option: end the relationship so both parties can be with someone who fulfills their needs. It's reasonable to not want to have sex if you hate having it and it's reasonable to not want to be cheated on, but it seems illogical to expect someone to be in a sexless relationship if sex is an important part of a relationship for them. It seems like it would eventually just cause resentment. I don't enjoy enjoy sex and I would never be with a partner who considers sex to be integral to a relationship because I would feel too guilty. I would much rather want to be with someone who shared my lack of desire for sex because then I would at least know that we're both happy (or if we're unhappy then at least it wouldn't be because of sex)

Re: Asexuals dating non-asexuals

[(Anonymous)]

I agree. I wouldn't date someone who wants sex, bc it would be such a mismatch for me. It's not an area I'm willing or able to try to change, but I also don't expect a non ace to change for me. IDK if that ever works.

It does narrow prospects a bit, eh? 🍓 But that's true for any rarer orientation (and many straight people still have trouble finding a good relationship).