[ SECRET POST #3401 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3401 ⌋

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Comments

[fscom]

13. http://i.imgur.com/UM94axx.jpg

[(Anonymous)]

It's probably best your bf doesn't know the real reason because OUCH.

[diet_poison]

why?

some people have issues with touch and it has nothing to do with the people who want to be touching them

[(Anonymous)]

No one wants to find out their significant other is thinking about someone else when in intimate positions.

[(Anonymous)]

Hey, if it helps me get some, I'm cool.

[(Anonymous)]

I think that might be an aggrieved masculinity thing. Women don't really get like that.

[(Anonymous)]

Yes they do, little radfem, yes they do.

[(Anonymous)]

Ok, you know what make up your fucking minds. Am I a radfem or Am I an MRA? Because I post something and it's even money I'll one called one of the two

[(Anonymous)]

you're both

[diet_poison]

And I think you're stereotyping.

I wouldn't be a huge fan of a partner imagining someone else while cuddling with me, largely because I tend to not do that myself either, but it works for other people so *shrug*

anyway the impression I got from the original comment was more along the lines of "your partner might be upset to learn you don't like touching him as much as Thor" which is apparently not what anon meant

[kallanda_lee]

OP didn't say they do though? Only that imagining being in Thor's arms helped them. Not that they're thinking about it at the very moment they're cuddling with their bf.

[arcadiaego]

I don't think most people would have a problem with their SO imagining being hugged by a fictional Norse god.

[(Anonymous)]

I think you're missing the important part. Having issues with being touched is fine. But finding out that your partner is coping by imagining you're someone else might be awkward.

[(Anonymous)]

I'd get this if that someone else was the neighbour, but in this case it's just a fictional character that won't ever touch them for real. Not a real person, just a fantasy that they have control over, an ideal. And OP didn't even say that they're pretending their boyfriend is a superhero everytime they're close, just that they have this fantasy that helps them appreciate other's touching them better.

[diet_poison]

That's fair. I read your (?) comment differently.

Though it depends on the relationship. Some people would care more than others. And nobody said OP was imagining Thor at the same time as cuddling with their partner.

[(Anonymous)]

I think it's impossible to determine whether anon does this every time they're hugged, or whether imagining it once made the idea palatable. They use past tense: "made" it okay. It might have been only at the start, not continuously.

[elaminator]

+1

[dahli]

He has nice arms so I feel you, anon. Also whatever helps!