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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-04-29 06:31 pm

[ SECRET POST #3404 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3404 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2016-04-29 11:32 pm (UTC)(link)
Again I'm agreeing with you, but some people think that children deserve real love and are entitled to it by parents.
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[personal profile] sparrow_lately 2016-04-29 11:33 pm (UTC)(link)
I mean....children do deserve real love. I'd like to hear a fully valid excuse for not loving, or at least endeavoring, to love one's child.

(Anonymous) 2016-04-29 11:34 pm (UTC)(link)
Do you feel that children are entitled to their parents love?

(Anonymous) 2016-04-29 11:37 pm (UTC)(link)
That's fine. Thanks for the clarification and reply.

I was asking this question because lots of people throw around "nobody is *entitled* to love from anybody else!!!!!" around and I see all these people agreeing.
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[personal profile] sparrow_lately 2016-04-29 11:38 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah.

I mean....what is love? (Baby don't hurt me, don't hurt me, no more.) I listed the things I think a child is entitled to from a parent above. It's that's not love I guess I don't know what is. If a parent does all those things in sincerity and kindness, tells the child they are loved, and somehow still privately insists they don't love the kid, that's....their prerogative, I guess?

(Anonymous) 2016-04-29 11:40 pm (UTC)(link)
Well, I asked because you literally just stated "You cannot be entitled to love." at the top of this thread.

You can treat beings with kindness and fairness and equality without loving them as a child. They can be a responsibility that you feel dutiful toward, without a personal emotional commitment. For example lots of new or expecting moms fear that they won't love their child and lots of mothers that do *not* love their child but are doing their best to be good mothers to them fear being honest about it to anyone.
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[personal profile] sparrow_lately 2016-04-29 11:42 pm (UTC)(link)
TBH I took your question in the sense of non-familial love, as in people dating and the like. Parents owe their children as much love as they possibly can give. Even if it's hard.

(Anonymous) 2016-04-29 11:44 pm (UTC)(link)
That was exactly why I put the familial versions in the original post, so people wouldn't be confused.

It seems I disagree with you - ariakas put what I feel into words down below - but I'm not here to argue about that, just about the notion of being entitled to love. Thanks for replying.
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[personal profile] sparrow_lately 2016-04-29 11:50 pm (UTC)(link)
Fair nuff!

NAYRT

(Anonymous) 2016-05-01 02:43 am (UTC)(link)
Yes! Absolutely!