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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-04-29 06:31 pm

[ SECRET POST #3404 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3404 ⌋

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Re: Question for OP

(Anonymous) 2016-04-30 12:06 am (UTC)(link)
Eesh, I feel sorry for your friend. And her offspring. I hope she's wrong that she won't love the kid, but I think people who have kids and don't actually want them are kind of awful. Hell, I think that about people who get pets they don't actually want. And I hope she has a few long, brutally honest talks with her husband and her parents, because their expectations that she love the kid might well make her resent them and the kid both. Parents who resent their kids make the kids into fucked-up adults, and the kid will pick up on the weird dynamic this is gonna cause. Hell, the future grandparents are so excited, maybe they should step in and raise the kid.

Re: Question for OP

(Anonymous) 2016-04-30 12:10 am (UTC)(link)
I think it's difficult to know for sure whether you want a kid or not before you have one. More so because children are so different. What if you want a kid but the kid you get isn't one you like? She wants *a* kid for sure before she gets too old to safely have one, but that's more to do with having *a* kid in order to have a family and move into a new stage of life than *this* kid, and she's not sure if she'll want *this* one... it's complicated.

She was telling me all those worries earlier, I'd never really thought about them.