[ SECRET POST #438 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #438 ⌋

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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 11 pages, 254 secrets from Secret Submission Post #063.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 ] broken links, [ 1 2 3 4 ] not!secrets, 0 not!fandom, [ 1 2 ] too big, [ 1 ] posted twice, [ 1] what.
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

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[(Anonymous)]

64. Agreed completely... I'm perfectly happy the way I am, but sometimes I feel like I should just get it over with because I'm tired of people acting like I'm weird.

It seriously sucks, because otherwise I'd be completely happy with myself. I've been asked out too, but I don't need a relationship, and I don't feel ready anyway! I worry sometimes that I'll end up as some old spinster librarian, but I shouldn't have to feel pressured like this!

Re: 64.

[(Anonymous)]

I'm in the exact same boat as you. I'm just not up for a relationship, especially not a sexual one, but I still feel like I'm somehow weird for waiting so long. (I'm 20 btw)

I would happy with myself as well if I didn't feel like I'm somehow still a child for never having been laid. I don't see why anyone else but me would care so much about my nonexistant sex life.

Re: 64.

[inuyatta.livejournal.com]

I'm almost 22, with a boyfriend of 3, almost four years. We're still virgins. Fuck what the crowd says, you're the ones that have to deal with that issue for the rest of your lives, so be happy with yourself! Don't let the meaningless opinions ruin your mood!

Re: 64.

[magharabi.livejournal.com]

Amen to that. I'm 25, and still a virgin. It never meant I was a loser. It meant that I feel having sex should be something special between two people, and I wanted my first time to be with someone extraordinary, who really truly cared about me and wasn't just using me to scratch an itch. I'm engaged now, looking forward to my wedding day, and I'm so incredibly glad that I waited, because I have a lot to look forward to, not just the stress of planning and family members and all of the politics that goes on. That makes it all worth it.

Re: 64.

[inuyatta.livejournal.com]

Absolutely--instead of worrying about how to get it right now, it's wiser to worry what will come of it tomorrow.

Congratulations! :D

Re: 64.

[kamikazexxx.livejournal.com]

If it's one thing you should have realized since that secret post, is that you aren't weird or totally unique in your situation.
I'm in the same boat, paddling in the same direction. The pressure can get intense, and worse, you imagine that you're going to wind up in some museum of old curiosities as the world's only and oldest virgin.
This is where knowing who you are and what you are about comes in. I haven't done it, simply because I'm not ready, despite being in my twenties. I pretty much want to avoid all the relationship drama and enjoy the single life.
Even though I angst about it sometimes, I know that when the time is right, everything will happen; I won't feel pressured or unsure, and then, I won't hesitate.
I may not be certain who, when, and where, but I'll wait till I'm good and ready. Until then, screw everyone else (pun intended). It's my body and my life; when the time is right, I'll be the first to know. The same line of thought applies to you. Do what you feel is right, when you feel is right.




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