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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-04-30 03:45 pm

[ SECRET POST #3405 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3405 ⌋

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Re: Non-fandom confession thread

(Anonymous) 2016-04-30 09:35 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm tired of people who worry when you don't want to talk about your problems constantly. I don't. I know it's therapeutic for some people, but for me, I need to focus on the positive. It's not that I'm an emotionally detached person, I'm not on the verge of alcoholism, and I don't need to "learn how to cry." I do talk about my problems sometimes, when I need to. But if I only focused on the dark shit in my life right now, I don't think I'd be as collected as I am.

Re: Non-fandom confession thread

(Anonymous) 2016-04-30 09:38 pm (UTC)(link)
I am an emotionally detached person and I wish people'd stop assuming that means there's something wrong and trying to get me to open up to them when I don't want or need to. So I know how you feel.

There isn't even anything wrong at all, but people assume there must be something that I don't want to talk about.
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Re: Non-fandom confession thread

[personal profile] elaminator 2016-04-30 09:48 pm (UTC)(link)
See, I understand this. People cope in different ways, and no one should be constantly prodded to talk about their feelings if they don't want to or aren't comfortable with it. (Mind your own business and all that, plus it's considerate.)

Recently though, I had the opposite problem, where I feel like if I so much as mention my problems around my brother (who I'm staying with, since my home was damaged in a flood) he thinks I'm being whiny and complaining too much.

Re: Non-fandom confession thread

(Anonymous) 2016-04-30 11:52 pm (UTC)(link)
My problem is that none of the people I know who want me to talk about my problems are really any good at being the one to talk to. I don't need someone to acknowledge that I'm upset, I need someone to acknowledge that I have legit cause to be upset. I don't need someone to tell me I'm amazing and can get through anything, I need someone to give me real, practical advice and help. Failing that, I need someone to just shut up while I rant and then offer me a hug.