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⌈ Secret Post #3405 ⌋

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Cause they're fun.

I confess.

I shot the sheriff.

But I did not shoot the deputy.

I confess - I probably should not have laughed as hard as I did

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(Anonymous) - 2016-05-01 03:43 (UTC) - Expand

<3

Clapton? GET OUTTA THIS THREAD!

I'd like to quit but it would make people unhappy.

Quit what?

I'm tired of people who worry when you don't want to talk about your problems constantly. I don't. I know it's therapeutic for some people, but for me, I need to focus on the positive. It's not that I'm an emotionally detached person, I'm not on the verge of alcoholism, and I don't need to "learn how to cry." I do talk about my problems sometimes, when I need to. But if I only focused on the dark shit in my life right now, I don't think I'd be as collected as I am.

I am an emotionally detached person and I wish people'd stop assuming that means there's something wrong and trying to get me to open up to them when I don't want or need to. So I know how you feel.

There isn't even anything wrong at all, but people assume there must be something that I don't want to talk about.

See, I understand this. People cope in different ways, and no one should be constantly prodded to talk about their feelings if they don't want to or aren't comfortable with it. (Mind your own business and all that, plus it's considerate.)

Recently though, I had the opposite problem, where I feel like if I so much as mention my problems around my brother (who I'm staying with, since my home was damaged in a flood) he thinks I'm being whiny and complaining too much.

My problem is that none of the people I know who want me to talk about my problems are really any good at being the one to talk to. I don't need someone to acknowledge that I'm upset, I need someone to acknowledge that I have legit cause to be upset. I don't need someone to tell me I'm amazing and can get through anything, I need someone to give me real, practical advice and help. Failing that, I need someone to just shut up while I rant and then offer me a hug.

I want a close friend more than I want a significant other.

Seriously, while a guy in my life would be nice, I just want someone to go on a spontaneous road trip with. That's all.

Hey, me too. My dream is a road trip through Europe with my BFF but they're always too busy/broke/lazy for it. I'm getting tired of waiting for other people's plans so I'd like to go on a trip all by myself but I get too restless when I'm alone for too long in a place I don't know.
I need new friends.

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shortysc22 - 2016-04-30 23:31 (UTC) - Expand

Stay away from the Grand Canyon if you find one.

This! I just want someone who will agree to all of my adventures, of which there are many. I love to travel and I'm super lucky when it comes to contests, so I end up winning at least 3-4 concerts a year, but they're always for a pair of tickets and i just want someone to always be willing to go with me!

Same. I don't care so much about a significant other, I really just want an impossibly close friend.

i ate my twin in the womb

I agree with this, with a caveat of someone closer to my own age than my mother is, and preferably involved in Fandom to some degree.

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(Anonymous) - 2016-05-01 03:26 (UTC) - Expand

I cheated on my ex-fiance with a pair of identical twin brothers I used to be friends with. He was abusive and manipulative, I was mad, we were drinking. Things got a little out of hand.

I don't regret it or feel guilty. Probably should, but nah, he was a prick and didn't deserve me.

This is a repeat because I was super late last time, but I thought Ruth Baxter Ginsburg ws a light-skinned black woman until people started pondering if Scalia's replacement would be the first black woman on the supreme court.

Tbis has apparently become an unpopular opinion, but I legit believe gender is social-construct bullshit. If you're brain doesn't match your body, that's a problem with your sex. Anything else is just subscribing to what "society" says men and women should be.

And that will never change until daring people break the mold.

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world_eater - 2016-05-01 13:44 (UTC) - Expand

i'm like super vanilla but last night I had a dream I was tying myself up and it was incredibly hot. now I want to experiment with self-bondage........

probably won't though cuz i'm too worried of hurting myself and too embarrassed to ask anyone else to help me out in case things go wrong.

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sparrow_lately - 2016-04-30 23:02 (UTC) - Expand

I realized today that I laugh in conversation with people, for their benefit and not mine. I dunno, it just kind of clicked - he said something, I found it amusing, and then it was like my brain went "quick, laugh". And then I felt guilty, because it didn't feel genuine. But it occurred to me that that's pretty much how I always react. I think I'm a robot.

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(Anonymous) - 2016-04-30 23:50 (UTC) - Expand

I think I'm addicted to unprotected sex with my girlfriend.

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world_eater - 2016-05-03 09:54 (UTC) - Expand

I'm tired of being disrespected, invalidated, gaslighted, being made to feel inferior, mocked, emotionally/verbally/psychologically abused, being talked about behind my back, mocked. I'm tired of phoniness and hypocrisy. I'm tired and I want to give up.

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