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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-05-06 05:12 pm

[ SECRET POST #3411 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3411 ⌋

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tabaqui: (Default)

Re: Am I bad person for

[personal profile] tabaqui 2016-05-07 04:58 am (UTC)(link)
No. That's annoying as fuck. Does she have any actual issues? Maybe next time she's hyperventilating over having some illness there's no way in hell she could have, just drone at her 'yes, you're dying, it's terrible, shall we go pick out a coffin? this is so sad' Or maybe 'we should video tape your illness since nobody but brain-eating cannibals from the West Indies have ever gotten it, you're a scientific miracle'....

Maybe dry sarcasm will either snap her out of it or make her so annoyed she'll go away?

Re: Am I bad person for

(Anonymous) 2016-05-07 05:36 am (UTC)(link)
I don't think the West Indies has brain-eating cannibals. Try the East Indies.

/missing the point
tabaqui: (Default)

Re: Am I bad person for

[personal profile] tabaqui 2016-05-07 05:58 am (UTC)(link)
*snerk*

Re: Am I bad person for

(Anonymous) 2016-05-07 07:26 am (UTC)(link)
Hypochondria is an actual thing. It's not just people being dramatic for the sake of it. You wouldn't tell a depressed person to end it all if they're so unhappy or an OCD person to hook their lights to their phone so they can walk ans flip or someone anxious about alopecia to just buy a wig and be done with it, so why be so shitty to the hypochondriac who cwn't help themselves any more thsn the others?

Can it be annoying? Sure. But annoying the general "you" isn't the point. Because it's not about you.

Re: Am I bad person for

[personal profile] herpymcderp 2016-05-07 11:36 am (UTC)(link)
Counterargument: no one is obliged to let their own mental health or wellbeing suffer for the sake of someone else's... even if that someone else is a friend or a partner. OP has every right to be annoyed, frustrated, and withdraw support if they're at the end of their rope and their friend's issue is causing them personal harm.

I'm not saying this is carte blanche to be a dick to people who need treatment, but at a certain point, it actually is about you.
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Re: Am I bad person for

[personal profile] tabaqui 2016-05-07 02:10 pm (UTC)(link)
This.
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Re: Am I bad person for

[personal profile] tabaqui 2016-05-07 02:09 pm (UTC)(link)
No, it's about her roommate who is tired as fuck of 'talking her down'. And I did asked if she had *actual issues*.

Or perhaps she is like my mother in law, to whom every hiccup or twinge is 'cancer' - sometimes, it's just someone being annoying as fuck.