[ SECRET POST #3414 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3414 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

DA

Not sure if you're being sarcastic or not, but I'm willing to bet that the ratio of "dudes who like being dommed" to "dudettes who like being dommed" is a lot closer to even than popular media generally portrays.

[herpymcderp]

Not even a little sarcastic. I'm dead certain that a good 80% of men secretly wish they didn't have to be the one making all the moves and being in control all the time just because society said that's how hetero relationships work.

[sarillia]

I have heard that submissive fantasies are more common than dominant ones among both men and women.

[kallanda_lee]

I would not be surprised.

[ariakas]

This article:

http://www.feministcritics.org/blog/2010/11/20/do-men-or-women-have-fantasies-of-dominance-and-submission-the-results-noh/

Summarizes this study:

Zurbriggen, E. L., & Yost, M. R. (2004). Power desire and pleasure in sexual fantasies. Journal of Sex Research, 41, 288–300.

Which found that while there are slightly more men who prefer to be dominant than women and slightly more women who prefer to be submissive than men, the solid majority of both men and women prefer to be submissive. Moreover, of those men who prefer to be submissive, they have submissive fantasies slightly more often.

Another interesting finding of the study:

7. Women project their preferences onto other women

...Which could accurately describe some posters here hahahah. Men seem to accept that other men have different preferences than they do. We, on the other hand, must be legion or the terrorists win I guess.

[sarillia]

Thanks. I was looking for a good source since I couldn't remember where I'd heard it.

[(Anonymous)]

We, on the other hand, must be legion or the terrorists win I guess.

Fandom in an nutshell.