[ SECRET POST #3414 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3414 ⌋

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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

Agreed. There's constantly the assumption in every relationship that the guy has to be taking the lead. It took me a while to sort of, come into my own as a dominant because like, as a chick, you get used to being bossed around. But it really, really was unpleasant for me.

While we're divulging, personally, I can't disengage roleplay submission from being actually disrespected, and in the handful of times I've tried that stuff, I end up crying my eyes out after. Even if it's someone I trust, I always get the skeevies from it. I especially hate being physically dominated via show of strength. It makes me legitimately scared of assault. But being dominant makes me feel comfortable and safe. I'm also a bit of a sadist, and I am definitely aroused by other people's pain. Idk, you could probably armchair psychologist all night about this, but I like what I like.

The one "submissive" fantasy I have is a gangbang, but like, I guess I don't see it as a submissive thing, more like a whole bunch of guys just being *that desperate* to fuck me, sort of helpless in the face of their own desire.

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I don't even think of it so much in terms of hardcore BDSM - just overall sexual/physical dynamics in a relationship. Switching roles is appealing to me, with trust, desire, and a desire to please running both ways. But a guy who wants to always be dominant? Nope, nope, nope, not interested. An that's society's narrative on a "real man".