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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-05-15 04:24 pm

[ SECRET POST #3420 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3420 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2016-05-16 01:28 am (UTC)(link)
Oh my god, fuck off. I'm aro/ace and not a single bad thing has ever happened to me because of it. We do not face harassment or discrimination (except for the kind that straight people can face too, like sexist harassment etc). I know you're desperate to be oppressed, but this is just embarrassing.

(Anonymous) 2016-05-16 01:36 am (UTC)(link)
The fact is, only maybe one in five people who find out I'm ace respond badly, and probably only one in twenty get overly offensive about it, and and probably only one in fifty resort to vicious insults. But that still amounts to a couple of really bad experiences and a bunch of kind of crappy ones, along with the totally okay ones and the very positive ones.

That's the the reality of it.

I'm glad you've had only positive experiences as an ace/aro person, but I wish you would stop trying to use your positive experience to invalidate other ace/aro people who have been less fortunate. It's extremely insensitive and small-minded of you.

(Anonymous) 2016-05-16 01:41 am (UTC)(link)
If only one in fifty people responds that negatively, and you seriously don't understand why you have it a million times better than any gay person does, I think you are the one who's insensitive and small-minded.

(Anonymous) 2016-05-16 01:55 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, as opposed to the maybe one in ten who just tell me I don't exist. Maybe half of which do it extremely rudely, but informing me I'm deluded, or implying I just have daddy issues or whatnot.

Honestly, I prefer it when they jump right to "frigid bitch." That way at least I know what I'm dealing with.

But you know, I've noticed that for the most part, you're not actually engaging with me. From the beginning I've done you the courtesy of addressing your points directly and civilly (if not fondly), despite your efforts to couch those points in insults. Yet you have not extended me the same courtesy. You're just spitting out ignorance - have been since the start.

So yeah, I think I've had my fill for the day.

(Anonymous) 2016-05-16 02:02 am (UTC)(link)
Different anon, but you honest to God sound like you're twelve. People not being nice to you isn't actually discrimination.

Also, guess what? Plenty of non-ace women get called "frigid bitches" for deciding to be celibate for whatever reason! And told that they have daddy issues! But I guess admitting that you're mainly just facing misogyny would make you feel less special, lol.
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[personal profile] iggy 2016-05-16 02:39 am (UTC)(link)
"Bad things have never happened to me therefore they must not happen!!"

Ok.