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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-05-17 06:52 pm

[ SECRET POST #3422 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3422 ⌋

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Re: controversial opinions thread

[personal profile] nonnymouscawitz 2016-05-17 11:35 pm (UTC)(link)
Oops I am guilty of all of those. I usually love them, but I can see how it could be frustrating for you if everyone around you uses the same mannerisms.

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(Anonymous) 2016-05-17 11:53 pm (UTC)(link)
I think part of my problem is that I really dislike feeling like I'm being yelled at or ranted at, and I hate talking to people who yell or get angry easily. Maybe it's partly because I'm not great at talking without stumbling over words and messing something up, so I do fine with patient people who let me finish what I'm saying, but not so well with people who get so emotional that they start interrupting, talking over me, and so on. I just avoid talking around them, because I know I have no chance - it's like me vs. a tank, and they're just going to run me over and smush me into the ground. Plus when people start yelling and getting really angry about something, I always feel like they're yelling AT me, even if they're just yelling about something.

Obviously, no one in a video or on Tumblr is yelling at me, but I guess I've just gotten used to being put off by that style of communication.
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Re: OP

[personal profile] nonnymouscawitz 2016-05-17 11:55 pm (UTC)(link)
I have a tendency to yell or rant because I'm really, really bad at verbal communication. It's something I need to work on, so I'm sorry that people like me have made you uncomfortable.

Re: OP

(Anonymous) 2016-05-18 12:09 am (UTC)(link)
It's okay, I'm bad at verbal communication too, but ended up with the opposite result (being too quiet and having to speak slowly to avoid everything I'm saying coming out all muddled).