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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-05-24 06:34 pm

[ SECRET POST #3429 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3429 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2016-05-25 05:55 pm (UTC)(link)
The one who won't tell you what people are saying is annoying, but since you seem reliant on these people, all you can do the next time she does it is calmly say "I wish you wouldn't tell me that, because it really upsets me to know I'm being talked about without knowing what was said."

And don't raise your voice. On the receiving end, there's not much difference between a raised voice and a shout.

(Anonymous) 2016-05-25 07:07 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you. I remember that I've told her that before, but I can't exactly remember what her reaction was. I do know it wasn't good (and she still does it) but then again, maybe I was being rude? I live in one of these countries where you're not supposed to question people in authority like older people or doctors. Do you think it might work if I just tried not to say anything at all? It's difficult to keep quiet, especially if someone's saying something that I happen to know isn't true, but I think talking just makes things worse.