[ SECRET POST #3435 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3435 ⌋

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Comments

[sarillia]

I'm the opposite. I find it nearly impossible to hold a grudge.

[mrs_don_draper]

It's less "holding a grudge" and more "staying away from people who hurt me."

[sarillia]

I don't normally do that either. I have some relationships that have faded away but it's always the other person who does most of the pulling away. I generally willing to move on from anything that bothered me.

[diet_poison]

I mean I think "maintaining a relationship with people who hurt me" is a TERRIBLE way to define "forgiveness"

[(Anonymous)]

Not forgiving someone doesn't mean you hold a grudge. It simply means you don't forgive them.

Holding a grudge requires energy directed toward active hatred. Not forgiving doesn't. It's possible to not forgive somebody, but not hate them, either. When I choose to not forgive, I end up just not giving a shit because I cut off all contact with the person (or as much contact as possible).

[sarillia]

I don't know if what I do counts as forgiveness by your definitions. I just move on and relate to whoever hurt me based on what they do next instead of continuing to think about what they did before.