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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-05-30 07:05 pm

[ SECRET POST #3435 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3435 ⌋

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Re: Controversial (fandom) Opinions

(Anonymous) 2016-05-31 12:46 am (UTC)(link)
I understand your second point. It's not something I've considered before, but I can see how someone may not know they're hurting another person.


I haven't seen Tangled, but I get it. It's a matter of how much you love someone. I guess I'm so used to the idea that love means putting someone else above yourself. Like your example, anyone that loves themselves over others is portrayed as a villain and it's always shown as an evil thing.
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Re: Controversial (fandom) Opinions

[personal profile] nonnymouscawitz 2016-05-31 12:52 am (UTC)(link)
It's not that your definition is wrong, per se. It's more that you're looking at the actions of love. Putting someone else first is a hallmark of healthy love, but A) It is still an action, and B) Not all love is healthy. Loving yourself over others is shown as a bad thing because it usually is, but it doesn't mean you don't love others. It just means that you don't love them in a healthy, constructive way.