[ SECRET POST #3440 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3440 ⌋

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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

Of course other people are allowed to dislike it. And note-- I didn't say I'm a fan of the book. I'm not, actually. It was an interesting approach to the Arthurian legend in its day, but it hasn't held up well over time and the prickly unlikeability of the main character is a big reason why not everyone likes it.

But yes, if someone thinks Morgaine was mean to to be a perfect character, then they have missed the point. It's entirely possible to miss the point of a book, and it's not a personal attack on anyone to suggest that they might have done so. You're the only one making personal attacks here. The conversation with lady_dragoon has been perfectly civil.

[(Anonymous)]

Do you know the author personally? No? Good, then quit pretending what you think is fact. It's just your fucking opinion.

[(Anonymous)]

Wow, you seem angry. I haven't presented my opinion as fact, but you seem very threatened by the fact that my opinion differs from yours. Why is that? I'm just fine with you not agreeing with me.

[(Anonymous)]

But yes, if someone thinks Morgaine was mean to to be a perfect character, then they have missed the point.

Yes, you fucking have. If you're "just fine" with disagreement, then there's no need to tell people they're too dumb to get the point if they have a different view than you do.

[(Anonymous)]

Except that I haven't told anyone they're dumb. That was you. You know, it's possible to be a smart person and miss parts of a book, or fail to recall them. It happens all the time.

[(Anonymous)]

No. You did not actually use the word "dumb" but you implied the fuck out of it, and now you're playing the victim because someone decided to call you on it. That's manipulative and shitty. Knock it off.

[(Anonymous)]

Your reasoning doesn't seem at all logical to me. Being diplomatic is a useful approach in any discussion where there's disagreement is a good thing. It doesn't imply that anyone is dumb.

But perhaps *I* am the dumb one here because I'm beginning to think you've been trolling me all along. Let me guess... anon who pretends to be an outraged SJW? You're very persistent, I'll grant you that.

[(Anonymous)]

The way you phrased, you implied people were stupid for not agreeing with you, but that you're being too nice to actually call tgem stupid.

And no, I'm not trolling. I really do think you're being manipulative as fuck.

[(Anonymous)]

and it's not a personal attack on anyone to suggest that they might have done so.

Then why the "trying to be diplomatic" bullshit? If it's not a personal attack, you shouldn't need that kind of language as a cabeat. That just smacks of "well I know I shouldn't call you stupid, but I really think you're stupid so here's a nicer way of saying it."

[(Anonymous)]

Well, no. All that means is that I'm aware that disagreeing with someone's opinion (particularly on interpretation of a work) is a touchy subject, and I'm acknowledging that. You're reading a great deal of aggression into this and I'm not really sure why. As I said before, I haven't called anyone stupid or insulted anyone in this discussion, least of all lady_dragoon. We all carry baggage into our interactions with other people, and I'm wondering if that's the case here.

[(Anonymous)]

All that means is that I'm aware that disagreeing with someone's opinion (particularly on interpretation of a work) is a touchy subject, and I'm acknowledging that.

Again, what does "being diplomatic" have to do with that? If it's not a personal attack, it's not a personal attack. By using that language, you ARE, in fact, acknowledging it's a personal attack.

[(Anonymous)]

Well, no. Acknowledging that the subject in question is a hot button topic and that I'm trying to be careful isn't an attack. Going by your contributions to this thread, it seems you have a rather curious definition of what an "attack" is, though.

[(Anonymous)]

Again, that has jack fucking shit to do with "diplomacy." The way you phrased it is essentially saying "well I know you're stupid, but I'm trying to be nice about it."

The fact that your answer to this is "oh, well you're just reading too much into it" rather than "okay, that might've come out wrong, sorry about that" is very, VERY telling.

[(Anonymous)]

DA

The problem is that "I'm trying to be diplomatic, here" carries the implication that you are holding back and choosing your words carefully in order to maintain civility, when what you really want to say isn't civil at all.

That may not be how you meant it, but that's how it sounds.