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fandomsecrets2016-06-26 03:10 pm
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Re: What's the best course of action when you fail at everything you do?
(Anonymous) 2016-06-27 12:10 pm (UTC)(link)Feeling like a failure and actually being a failure are two different things.
If you fail at something once, you try again. If the method you use fails, try another method.
Stop assuming what people are thinking about you, and better yet, stop caring. It sounds like it's kind of a distraction. Move away from the pity party; it's so easy to give up and say it's because you're "a loser," whether or not that's true.
I'm guessing the situation might be a little more complex than what you've told us. Honestly, I don't know if there's anything that can make you stop FEELING like a failure. Not to borrow callous anon's mantra from a few threads above, but the one thing you shouldn't do is be content with staying where you are. You have to find a way to move along. And stop getting distracted by all the haters. There's always going to be someone who isn't a fan of you, and they're not worth the tears.