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https://www.buzzfeed.com/laraparker/putting-the-d-in-disney?utm_term=.ppwl17wO1#.deMaz1LVz

So this is a shitty buzzfeed article, but this stood out to me:
"When he unexpectedly slaps your face with his penis"
"When he aims for your face, but you have to protect your eyes."

Is this just something people do without asking permission? I would have thought that slapping someone or coming on their face is something you should at least ask before doing, but this makes it sound like people just do it and you just have to live with it? Is this just buzzfeed being dumb, or is it realistic?

Those are all porn things, so I'm guessing a lot of guys expect real life sex to be like porn and just do that stuff. If anyone tried that with me without permission we wouldn't be having sex anymore.

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This is something I've definitely seen a lot in porn and I can imagine people thinking, "Whelp, I guess that's what you do!" if they haven't been given reason to believe otherwise. I mean, things happen during blow jobs, but I've never had a guy straight-up slap or poke me in the face on purpose.

The slapping with the penis in porn I believe is to keep things hard because filming can go on for a long time. And the coming on the face is so the ejaculation can be seen on film. But because it shows up so much in porn, it becomes part of what many people think of when they think of sex. And for some guys, I think it becomes a dominance thing. And I'm sure there are girls out there that would like it. Me, though, you aren't doing that without permission.

Well, I've never had sex, but I tend to assume that everything is a complicated in the moment process of communication and negotiation, and sometimes there's miscommunication even if everyone is trying to be above board

But like I say i don't really know

Well, there is a difference between slapping someone and slapping them with your penis. A better descriptor would be "waving their penis at you."

And considering this is a buzzfeed meme, it doesn't take into consideration how long the relationship has been going on and such.

Also, buzzfeed meme.

In my experience, people ask. This may be a function of me being experienced enough at vetting potentials to have sex with people who aren't dipshits though.

I have had sex with a lot of men. Like, more than thirty. This has never been an issue. TBH, I'd be in heaven if I could actually find a guy who'd take control and get extra dirty without being asked.

Because it's not polite to do that stuff unexpectedly, and they're not mindreaders that you want that?

Yep, that. The guy can't know you want that unless you ask, and if he just decided to do in unexpectedly, there'd be a chance he'd be doing it to someone who really doesn't want it.

I would really, really hate it if a guy slapped me (with a dick or otherwise) and just assumed I'd be okay with it.

I would straight up castrate someone for coming on my face. Or anywhere near my face. Or anywhere on me, actually, because that means they aren't wearing a condom and I've refused to have sex with them in the first place.

The dick slapping thing though, that's just an annoyance at most? Like, I'm already sucking your dick, stop hitting me with the damn thing or I'm not going to suck your dick anymore.

If a man slapped me with his penis without explicitly clearing that action well in advance I'd rip it off.

The only time my guy has come on my face was when I planned to swallow, but his spunk landed in my mouth wrong, and I pulled off suddenly but not far enough away. In context, it was one of those silly messy moments to giggle over.

If he'd ever made the unilateral decision to come on my face for shits and giggles, we wouldn't be having sex.

Sometimes they ask and when you say no they make you feel guilty and prudish so you let it happen and then feel gross!

Or you tell them you're kind of into a mild bdsm thing and they decide they should do it really hard, and you don't know lighter is an option and feel bad asking for that.

Basically it sucks but a lot of women put up with it so you feel like you have to and a lot of guys feel entitled to it.

If anyone ever pulls this sruff on you don't stick around.

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Are you radfem anon?

Hell no. I just don't want people reading this being told this doesn't happen. It TOTALLY happens. The good thing is there's a whole world out there of guys who will treat you better.

Never settle for guys who make you feel bad. It isn't prudish or silly to not be into it no matter what he implies.

in what world is "it's ok to not want guys to jizz on your face even if they pressure you about it" radical feminism?

I'm pretty sure there are some idiots who think a woman being anything other than the world's flattest doormat is "radical feminism."

(and probably comparable to Nazism/Stalinism too!)

The funny thing is when they troll here.

Can you imagine being a regressive weenie who is too intimidated by alt right boards and has to come here?

There are and they are awful. I haven't seen that much presence from those types here though.

"He's hackin' and wackin' and smackin'
He just hacks, wacks, choppin' that meat"

Doing this without permission is shitty, sure. But it's not limited to women getting this treatment - I have seen quite a few women coplaining their male partners not being too thrilled about their ladies suddenly deciding they want to go for some unannounced anal play.

There's always ONE.

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