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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-06-30 06:37 pm

[ SECRET POST #3466 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3466 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[BRÅVES- "Lovely Bones" (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DiTx4qufF2g)]


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[The Doctor Blake Mysteries]


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[fault milestone one]


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09. http://i.imgur.com/XFAoKt9.png
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Re: Venting thread

(Anonymous) 2016-06-30 11:28 pm (UTC)(link)
What do you do with a person who goes around telling people their harmless interests are "not okay", and is very harshly critical of others (like 'you're a piece of shit' harsh), bullying, but telling her to stop being a dickwad is an attack on her in her mind?

We have someone like this on our floor. Very obnoxious. Lots of reports to the poor RA when things don't go her way.

Re: Venting thread

(Anonymous) 2016-06-30 11:30 pm (UTC)(link)
I'd first take a good hard look to see if she has a point. Some things do need to be called out.

Re: Venting thread

(Anonymous) 2016-06-30 11:35 pm (UTC)(link)
When I say harmless interests I mean things like fandom for stuff she doesn't like or being part of a hobby/interest with someone she doesn't like.


Yes some things do need to be called out. But the things she's whining and crying about aren't it. Her criticisms are often leveled at people she's had previous disagreements with or enjoy things she doesn't like.

and overall it's no excuse to be a bully and that's what she is.

Re: Venting thread

(Anonymous) 2016-07-01 12:31 am (UTC)(link)
NAYRT - I know what you're saying. Not sure what to tell you, except... you might want to distance yourself from this friend before it's you who's a "problem."
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Re: Venting thread

[personal profile] blitzwing 2016-07-01 12:21 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, like you. You're problematic nonny, I'm afraid you need to deposit yourself in the nearest garbage bin.
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Re: Venting thread

[personal profile] kallanda_lee 2016-06-30 11:42 pm (UTC)(link)
Your floor? As in workplace? I'd report that behavior.

Re: Venting thread

(Anonymous) 2016-06-30 11:54 pm (UTC)(link)
college actually.
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Re: Venting thread

[personal profile] kallanda_lee 2016-06-30 11:57 pm (UTC)(link)
There must be someone you can tell?

Re: Venting thread

(Anonymous) 2016-07-01 12:03 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah like some higher authority in our dorm prob.

Re: Venting thread

(Anonymous) 2016-07-01 01:09 am (UTC)(link)
All you can do is ignore and avoid at all costs. Don't let her drag you into her drama.

Re: Venting thread

(Anonymous) 2016-07-01 01:14 am (UTC)(link)
I've quit having anything to do with her lately. Sounds like a plan

I care more about my grades than her drama anyway.