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⌈ Secret Post #3468 ⌋

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Re: Phrasing! Trigger Warning, Talk of Rape

[diet_poison]

Ok first of all who makes their kids pee on a schedule?? wtf? I don't pee on a schedule and I'm an adult (well, I pee when I wake up, but that's bc I haven't peed for 7+ hours). I pee when I need to pee and poo when I need to poo and the latter especially varies a lot.

Secondly I think there is value on having the family all eat together and encouraging kids to go to bed on time so they won't be super tired the next day (though forcing them to actually sleep if they're not tired is also an exercise in futility).

But thirdly I definitely agree with your objections. Those things are NOT equivalent to rape and I think the implication that they are is rather offensive indeed. :/

Re: Phrasing! Trigger Warning, Talk of Rape

[meredith44]

Ok first of all who makes their kids pee on a schedule?? wtf?
You obviously can't make kids pee on a schedule. It's their bodies, so they are in control. (And a lot of parents really screw up potty training by forgetting (or not caring about) that.) But I disagree that having a schedule is inherently bad. Like, for example, a lot of people ask that kids try to pee before nap and nighttime. And I think that is a perfectly reasonable request. As the child will be asleep and thus less likely to be in control of having to go to the bathroom. Or asking a child to try before leaving the house, and you are stuck in a car with no easy access to a bathroom. Plus, a lot of kids poop at about the same time every day. So if you are potty training a child, most experts recommend asking them to try at that time. (Again, you obviously can't force a child to go, but I see no harm in asking them to try.)

Re: Phrasing! Trigger Warning, Talk of Rape

[diet_poison]

Oh for sure, I'm not saying don't ask them to try! (My parents always told us to try before a car trip and I think that's a good habit for adults too. They probably also did at other times; I don't remember.) I just mean requiring them to actually produce urine on a schedule. Which according to this thread some people actually do. :/

Re: Phrasing! Trigger Warning, Talk of Rape

[meredith44]

Ah, yeah, that makes sense!