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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-07-05 06:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #3471 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3471 ⌋

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[It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia]


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[Brooklyn Nine-Nine]


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[1931: Scheherazade at the Library of Pergamum]


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[outlander, ontd-sassenach]


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(Voltron: Legendary Defender)


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[Michael Kamen]


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[Captain America (MCU), Daredevil (MCU), Fullmetal Alchemist: Brotherhood, and Bleach]













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Re: question

[personal profile] ypsilon42 2016-07-06 03:18 pm (UTC)(link)
Talk to her. Srsly.

Everyone here seems to tell you to let it go, but I think you should bring it up if it bothers you. From what it sounds like, you haven't asked about it in the last couple of month and she might feel comfortable talking to you now.

The important thing is, when you talk to her be honest, but don't put pressure on her. Tell her that you will respect it, if she still doesn't want to talk about it, but that you have been worrying and thinking it might have been about you. Tell her also, that you want to support her, but if she feels you do that best by not talking about it, respect that.

Maybe she has changed her mind and will want to talk to you. Maybe she still doesn't want to talk. If it's not about her sexuality, she will probably tell you that it's about something else, even if she won't tell you the details and you can at least stop worrying about that.

It's her decision wether she wants to talk about it or not and you should not pressure her. But if this situation worries you or makes you feel unsure, you should be able to express that too.