[ SECRET POST #3472 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3472 ⌋

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Re: Questions/Advice

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As someone who once really fell apart when a very close sibling moved away: embrace it. Accept that things are going to change, that your relationship is changing, and instead of trying to preserve the relationship as it is or keep up the same level of contact, focus on the good--both for your sister, and for you. This is a chance for you both to grow in new ways and find new good things outside of your relationship. That doesn't negate that relationship, just adds to it.

It sounds like you've been a really solid support to her for a long time, and no longer being needed might feel really weird (and shitty). But defining yourself/your life in terms of how much you can give to somebody else is almost never a good idea. Her moving away might actually be a good opportunity for you to gain a little distance from that, and find more happiness of your own unattached to her.

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